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Curated Moment vs Reality |
New Year’s Eve. The night we’re all supposed to be celebrating, right? The time to reflect on the year gone by, set lofty goals for the future, and pop some champagne. But let’s be honest—how many of us actually stick to our
New Year’s resolutions past the first week of January? By midnight, most of us are more likely to be pouring our third glass of overpriced fizz than thinking about how we’re going to quit social media or eat more vegetables.
Let’s break it down. Every year, people gather to celebrate the so-called "fresh start" that is January 1st. But have you ever noticed that by the end of the night, the only thing people are really celebrating is their ability to overindulge without a second thought? For instance, take a walk through any metro city’s nightlife district on New Year’s Eve. People stumbling out of clubs in heels too high to walk in, spilling drinks on their new outfits, or weaving down the streets so drunk they can’t even find their Uber. Is this really a celebration? Or is it just a night of excess to distract from the real issues we face every day?
Oh, and don’t even get me started on the Instagram-worthy shots. We’ve all seen those posts: the perfectly timed selfie with fireworks in the background, a group photo that makes it look like everyone is having the time of their lives. Meanwhile, back at home, people are scrolling through their feeds, wondering why their New Year’s Eve doesn’t look like that—because let’s face it, Instagram isn’t exactly a place for honesty. But behind those glamorous photos, a lot of people are just trying to fill an emotional void. We see it on the news every year: reports of people hitting rock bottom after the festivities. A quick Google search shows how many people have had their worst days after the ball drops, battling anxiety, depression, and loneliness, yet they’ve been out partying like there’s no tomorrow. The irony? New Year’s Eve is supposed to be a fresh start—but for so many, it’s just a distraction.
It’s like we’ve all collectively decided that a night of overindulgence is somehow going to fix everything we didn’t manage to fix in the past year. But here’s the kicker: New Year’s Eve: A Celebration or an Emotional Escape? In a world where we’re bombarded by FOMO and perfect social media feeds, we’ve convinced ourselves that this is what it means to "celebrate." If you’re not drinking expensive cocktails in a crowded club, did you even celebrate? Well, according to the Instagram algorithm, maybe not.
In reality, what we’re actually doing is avoiding the hard stuff—the things we’d rather not face. Maybe it’s the loneliness that peaks during the holidays, or the fact that we’re still stuck in a job we hate, or that we’re surrounded by people but somehow feel more isolated than ever. And yet, we keep chasing that high, year after year. If you’ve ever found yourself caught up in the chaos of a New Year’s Eve celebration, surrounded by people you don’t even know, waiting for that one perfect moment to really feel something, I’ve got news for you: you’re not alone. But you’re also not celebrating life—you’re escaping it.